How would you like it if your girlfriend kept disappearing on you for long periods of time, busy with her phone, calling someone? Or when she doesn’t respond to you all day and you have no idea what she’s up to? Or if some stranger keeps calling and texting her, and won’t leave her alone?
These are the kind of scenarios where you might want to intervene. The first step is to talk, of course, but that doesn’t always mean that she will be upfront with you. The reasons could be many; she might be getting harassed by a coworker, or contacted by a stalker, and feels endangered sharing that information; she might be involved in another relationship and doesn’t want you to know. Continue reading